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August 27th, 2011 at 02:02 pm

I really wanted to update my blog yesterday but I never had the chance. I woke up before 8 yesterday so I could phone the doctors to get an appointment. I phoned at 8 and the earliest time she could give me was 5pm. We took 5pm since it was our only option.

The rest of the day, before leaving for the doctors, was spent packing and moving stuff to my mum's. It's mostly my stuff we've moved. In the time spent at in-laws I've gathered a lot of crap, so I'm going to have a massive clearout and give a lot to charity.

We spent over half an hour waiting to be called at the doctors. When I finally seen her I was exhausted so I didn't ask any questions, just told her what I knew so far. She said I should receive a letter from the midwife soon. Apparently it's the midwife that deals with it all. She said she got in touch with them electronically to let them know so I should get a letter soon. I'm going to hang off changing my address details at the doctors just now until I get the letter.

We had a close call this week. When we told people at the start of the week, we told them not to tell anyone. Apparently MIL misunderstood/didn't listen and told one of her friends. On Thursday I decided to sign on to Facebook when I noticed a huge comment that had been sent about an hour before: "CONGRATULATIONS!! So happy for you" One of MIL's friends had decided to publicly leave a comment on my page, and had changed her status to talk about how great a gran MIL will be. I deleted the comment as soon as I noticed it, and hubby got on the phone to MIL. She's now not talking to her friend, and she apologised for telling her in the first place.

I've text some of my close family members today to let them know, with strict instructions to NOT post on my Facebook page. We're telling our friends in a few weeks, and I'll let work know soon.

Some financial news now:

I paid my "digs" to MIL. Hubby spoke to her and they came to an agreement that half of my money would go towards hubby's debt.

Hubby gave me £50 towards CC2, plus I paid £50,so £100 payment. Nice.

I've finally reached my moving out fund goal, but I'm still going to add to it.

I spoke to my mum and right now she thinks £50 each from me and hubby will be enough. However, I'm not too sure if that will change. We will start giving her that next month.

4 Responses to “Update”

  1. Jerry Says:
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    I do think that this will lead to a better situation for you, especially in light of expecting a baby. This is a time to try to lower stress and worry, not to increase it! I wish you all the best in your new living situation, and I hope that you will have some insurance of a stable and happy living circumstance over the coming months. Best wishes to you!
    Jerry

  2. TarWalker Says:
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    Yay! It sounds like you had a relatively smooth transition to your mom's!

    :-D I am so happy you guys were able to do that. Hopefully it will be a completely better next several months!

    So are you going to re-work your budget? Will you be able to hit all your goals plus a baby fund this year now??/'

  3. TarWalker Says:
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    Sorry about the extra ?/' at the end there... My puppy wanted to say hi as I hit submit. :-)

  4. scottish girl Says:
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    Jerry, I hope it leads to a better situation.

    TarWalker, it's been smooth for me, not for hubby. I hope the next few months will be better. I'm going to try to re-work my budget.
    Aww, how cute... "Hi Winry Smile"

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